An Effective guide to dating

People in long-term relationships, whether they are married or dating, often complain about getting into a rut. Your relationship may have started off with the great burst of passion and excitement but perhaps it began to wane because life is busy and work can wear you out by the end of the day.


If you're in a dating relationship that seems to be in a rut or wonder why you can't keep a long-term relationship exciting anymore, perhaps you need to go back to the beginning. That doesn't mean you need to break up with your current partner and find someone new, it means you need to refresh the relationship with exciting and spontaneous activities.

When you look back on a period of your life, what is it that you remember? Is it the average day-in, day-out activities? Not likely. It is more likely those fun and spur-of-the-moment times when you did things that were hilarious or scary or new. That's what it means to go back to the beginning of a relationship when everything you do is spontaneous and new.

Next time you and your girlfriend or boyfriend are deciding to do something on Friday, don't settle for dinner-and-a-movie. Do something different! Here are some ideas:

• Play paintball
• Rent a classic car
• Go skydiving
• Have a picnic

Or surprise your date with something spontaneous:

Start a water fight
Go for a romantic boat ride and tip the boat
Blindfold your date and take them somewhere they never been
Surprise your date at work just as they're finishing up for the day

Relationships fail for many reasons. One of the saddest reasons is that people simply drift apart because the other person doesn't excite them anymore. It doesn't have to be that you're your relationship, whether dating or married, can thrive when it is filled with adventures that the two of you share as you build memories together.

You'll look back on your time together with fondness as you consider the many fun and spontaneous things you did together. But doing those things is a choice. Choose to return to the beginning of your relationship and have fun again!

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Abused Spouses: How Divorce May Affect Your Green Card Chances

The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), passed into law in 1994 and amended in 2001, provides hope for immigrant abuse survivors. Under U.S. immigration law, immigrants may obtain a green card ("U.S. permanent residence”) by marrying a U.S. citizen (USC). The USC must, however under the normal course, petition U.S. Citizenship & Immigration Services (CIS, formerly known as “INS”) for an immigrant visa and a green card application for his/her immigrant spouse based on the marriage. 


But this process is not always easy on the immigrant – in many instances, it provides one of the most abusive ways a sponsoring spouse can exercise control over the immigrant, by holding the immigrant's tentative immigration status over her. 

This is where VAWA helps. Abused immigrants who are married to a U.S. citizen or Lawful Permanent Residents may now petition on their own for an immigrant visa and green card application, without the abuser's knowledge or consent. 

However, one of the recurring problems and questions that come up in these abused spouse cases is what happens to the immigrant’s chances for a green card if the abuser goes through on his threat and files for divorce? 

Similarly, how is her green card chances affected if the immigrant files for divorce, herself? 

Filing for relief under VAWA may still be possible even if divorce proceedings have begun or even if the divorce is final. A divorced immigrant who was subject to extreme cruelty from his or her legal permanent resident or U.S. citizen spouse may apply for an immigrant visa as an abused spouse (eventually leading to a green card) if the petition is filed with CIS (INS) within 2 years following any final divorce decree. 

Thus, if the immigrant is already divorced, s/he can still file for VAWA protection, but only if the divorce is 2 years old or less at the time it is filed and can prove that the abuse was related to the reason for or was the reason for the divorce, itself. 

The divorced immigrant must still prove the basic elements of a VAWA self-petition including having a real marriage (i.e., not a marriage entered into for immigration purposes) as well as prove that s/he lived with the abuser when they were married at some point. 

This provision allowing for divorce immigrants to file applies to all cases that were still being decided by CIS or filed on or after October 28, 2000. There are exceptions to this date, however, so an immigrant in this situation should contact an immigration attorney who regularly deals with VAWA (Violence Against Women cases) to determine if she is eligible to file for immigration protection under VAWA. 

If an abused immigrant spouse chooses to not file a VAWA-based immigrant visa petition and chooses to rely on her spouse to sponsor her, if the spouse fails to sponsor her or the case the spouse filed is not approved by the time the divorce is final, that case will be denied and the immigrant will have to start over with either a VAWA-based immigrant visa (if eligible) or some other potential immigrant visa or will be stuck without the means to obtain a green card. 

If an immigrant believes that her spouse is going to file for divorce or has already filed for a divorce and has a case based on her spouse's sponsorship currently being decided by INS (CIS), there may be a way to save the green card (adjustment of status) application that is attached to her spouse's immigrant visa filing and file for VAWA immigrant visa to protect herself from her spouse’s threats, and retain her work card and travel authorization instead of having to start all over again with a new green card application.  
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Beyonce's mum, Tina Lawson celebrates her third wedding anniversary with Richard Lawson

It's the third year wedding anniversary of Tina Lawson and actor Richard Lawson and Beyonce's mum took to Instagram to mark the special day.

Tina divorced Beyonce's dad, Matthew Knowles, after he cheated on her and got multiple women pregnant. She went on to marry her long-time actor friend Richard Lawson and they've been together for 3 years.
Celebrating their anniversary, Tina wrote: "Cannot believe it has been 3 years since we did the damn thing !!!! Walking on air ???? I love you with my whole being and you feed my soul????Happy Anniversary Baby????"

NYSC members will now be posted to farms – FCT Coordinator, Bello Ballama

The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) says it will include farming and crop production as part of the one-year primary assignment for corps members from the next service year.

According to Bello Ballama, the NYSC FCT Coordinator, in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria, said the move was to help address corps rejection by some corps employers through the engagement of more corps members in all aspects of farming and crop production.
The coordinator said that the move was also aimed at boosting the NYSC Skills Acquisition and Entrepreneurship Development (SAED) Programme.Ballam said the scheme was, therefore, putting all its farms in good condition in readiness for corps members to commence its use.

“Corps members will be involved in all aspects of farming and crop production. This will not only support skills acquisition of NYSC but also governments plan of boosting agricultural production to improve self-reliance and achieve national growth and development. From this 2018 Batch ‘A’ Stream I set of corps members who are commencing orientation on April 19, we are going to look into all the farm formations and centres to be able to post corps members there. 

We have farms in the FCT and many other states of the country; the present leadership of the scheme is poised to ensuring the revival of all NYSC facilities including the farms. The NYSC is faced with the challenge of engaging the increasing number of corps members mobilised every year. We, therefore, have to take proactive steps towards achieving our mandate and supporting the federal government’s plans for youth development,” he said.

He said that the scheme was still faced with the challenge of corps members being rejected by organisations they were posted to carry out their one-year primary assignment.

The coordinator said that in spite of discussion the scheme had with corps employers not to reject corps members, the NYSC was still faced with the problem every year. He said that some corps employers do not provide accommodation and transportation to corps members who are left to suffer harsh living conditions.

EFCC Arrests 4 Yahoo boys With Charms and Luxury Cars (Photos)

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, Lagos Zonal office, on Saturday, April 7, 2018, arrested four suspected Internet fraudsters. The suspects are Ale Daniel, Tunde Badmus, Adams Tunde Adedeji and Ajiboye Gbenga.

The quartet was arrested in the Lekki area of Lagos State for various offenses bordering on cyber crimes and money laundering.

Their arrest followed intelligence report received by the Commission about their activities alleging that they were living flamboyantly without known sources of income. Items recovered from them, include exotic cars and charms.

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The four suspects standing in front of their exotic cars

Speaking on the renewed clampdown on Internet fraudsters, the Lagos Zonal Head of the Commission, Akanninyene Ezima, said: “It is to checkmate the activities of these undisciplined elements who want to reap where they did not sow. By this action, we are also sending a red alert to the so-called yahoo-yahoo boys that engaging in fraudulent deeds does not pay.”

He also urged landlords, particularly in gated communities, to always carry out background checks on their tenants so as not to unwittingly run foul of Section 3 (Three) of the Advance Fee Fraud and Other Fraud Related Offences Act 2006, which says, “A person who, being the occupier or is concerned in the management of any premises, causes or knowingly permits the premises to be used for any purpose which constitutes an offence under this Act commits an offence and is liable on conviction to imprisonment for a term of not more than 15 years and not less than five years without the option of a fine.”

The suspects will soon be charged to court as soon as investigations are concluded.

At 6, Blue Ivy Has Own Stylist & Personal Shopper

She is a member of music world royalty. So it is little surprise Beyonce and Jay-Z's six-year-old daughter Blue Ivy enjoys the spoils of her famous family as it has been revealed she is assisted in all her style needs by her own personal shopper and stylist.
The Formation singer and her husband are often accompanied by high-profile events by their oldest child Blue and the couple ensure she's always looking her best with the help of Manuel Mendez

Manuel has been working for Beyonce's Parkwood Entertainment since 2009 and the 36-year-old star's representative confirmed the news.

Speaking to Women's Wear Daily, it was revealed that the employee - who is also a personal assistant to the Formation hitmaker - is tasked with being Blue Ivy's stylist and personal shopper.

Some of the outfits he has crafted for the youngster include the custom white Valery Kovalska tuxedo pantsuit she wore to this year's Grammy Awards and the Billie Blush dress she wore in her 48-year-old father's 'Family Feud' video.

Conor McGregor Could Be Banned From US...

MMA fighter Conor McGregor could be barred from reentering the US if he's convicted in a rampage against a rival's tour bus, according to experts.

Irish citizen McGregor, 29, was arrested on Thursday night in Brooklyn and charged with one count of felony criminal mischief and three counts of assault after the Barclays Center rampage.
He was caught on video hurling a hand truck through the window of a moving bus in an incident in which there were some injuries.

Whether or not the incident affects McGregor's future ability to enter and work in the US will all depend on how the court process plays out, and how skillfully his lawyers respond, said Scott Bratton, a partner at Magaret W. Wong & Associates immigration law firm who is not connected to the case.

'If he's convicted of a crime of moral turpitude, it could have implications for his ability to come back, and it may make it very difficult to come back' to the US, Bratton told DailyMail.com.

7-Year-Old Girl Loses Control Of Bladder After Repeatedly Being Raped By 40-Year Old Man

A seven-year-old girl has completely lost control of her bladder, repeatedly urinating on herself after being sexually violated by a 40-year-old neighbour who calls her ‘my wife.’

The incident, which occurred at Ilupeju PalmGroove area, Lagos State, on Tuesday, has sent shockwaves down the spines of many, who saw the suspect, identified as Baba Michael as a responsible man.
The suspect, a commercial bus driver, is said to have a four-month-old son and lives with his uncle. The baby was the attraction for the victim.

Whenever the girl goes to visit the baby, the suspect would take advantage of her. Nobody would have known about the atrocity, if not that the girl repeatedly urinated on her body during the examination.

The school management suspecting sexual violation alerted Child Protection Network. When the girl urinated on herself during an examination, one of her classmates alerted their class teacher. The victim’s mother, Mrs Ka- 18 Soldier flees from Boko Haram war, steals the car in Lagos Deserter faya Lawal, said that it was her daughter’s class teacher, who informed her about her daughter’s bladder control problem.

“She urinated on herself in the class during exams. It was her classmate, sitting close to her, that first noticed her unusual behaviour. “When her teacher sent for me, she said she thought it was the exam anxiety that made her urinate on her body. She allowed her to continue with her exams. But a few minutes later, she urinated again.

The teacher and headmaster asked me if she had been bedwetting before then, I told them it was long she stopped. It was then I knew something was terribly wrong with my daughter. I started weeping,” the mother said. She explained that the headmaster further asked her the person that was fond of sending the victim on errands in their compound, but she couldn’t think of a single person. Lawal had always encouraged her children to be respectful and run errands for people older than them.

She added: “Before I got to her school, the management had invited Child Protection Network, a human rights group. After much interrogation, my daughter confessed that it was Baba Michael, our neighbour, who defiled her. Baba Michael just moved into our compound two months ago. He lives with his uncle and four-month-old baby.

It is my daughter that usually takes care of the little baby. She also used to run errands for the man. I didn’t know something like that was happening right under my nose. However, I noticed that the man usually calls all young girls in the compound his wife.”

After revealing her ordeal, the victim was taken to Mirabel Centre, at Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH), where it was confirmed she had been defiled. The Child Protection Network Coordinator, Comrade Toyin Okanlawon, said that when they received the distress call about the case, one of their members at Mushin was sent to the area and the suspect arrested.

He added: “We were able to arrest the suspect through the support of his uncle. My advice to parents and guardians is to take good care of their children, especially the \girl-child. They should prevent them from staying in isolated places.”

The state Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), SP Chike Oti, did not pick his calls to confirm the story.

Student Threatens To Chop Off Lecturer's P*nis After Thinking He Mocked Her Lack Of S*xual Experience

A student has threatened to chop off her lecturer's penis after she believed he was trying to mock her with a cartoon due to her lack of sexual experience.

Stephanie Christol, 30, was sent a reading list by Dr. Christopher Dillon which featured a cartoon called The Virgin Snail.
Christol attended King’s College London where she studied history and is believed to have met Dr. Dillon in her final year when she was writing her dissertation. 

Furious at the perceived slight she emailed Dr. Dillon, who worked at the university’s Strand Campus, threatening to chop off his penis and stick it up his bottom.

The defendant, from Islington in London, also sent a series of emails and offensive Facebook messages about Dr. Dillon’s partner's appearance.

Dr. Dillon told Westminster Magistrates’ Court that he had been helping Christol with her dissertation which was on First World War films.

He said: ‘One message threatened me with violence. Between April to 25 September and there were dozens of emails.

One of them threatened to cut off my penis and shove it up to my bottom. They were threatening I was concerned they may spread over to my partner.

Christol denied but was convicted on one count of harassment without violence.

She was granted conditional bail ahead of sentencing at Westminster Magistrates’ Court.